Columnist Stella Sieger knows what men like.
Since I have repeatedly faced this question, I have often talked to different men about the topic. And they agreed: “Curvaceous women are better in bed”.
Now many slender girls will scream and say: “Wait a minute, excuse me, you can’t generalize that, can you?” Well, you’re right, you can’t generalize it, BUT: According to a survey by the bed manufacturer “Silentnight” 89% of men think that curvy women are better in bed! So does sex get better with every extra kilogram on the scales? How can that be?
On the one hand there is simply more to curvy women, more to touch and explore. In addition, the skin is much softer and you don’t constantly hit bones during sex. Furthermore, distinctive female curves have always been a symbol of fertility. It is associated that a woman with a large pelvis can give birth to strong children and feed them long and well with her large breasts. Due to medical advances and the great medical support today, this is no longer as important as it used to be. Nevertheless, this feeling is deeply rooted in men, which is why they subconsciously feel more sexually attracted to curvy women.
Many curvy women may not be happy with the way they look, they may think that because they have to make their partner happy in a different way than just with their looks (…even if I haven’t met a man who has pushed a woman, whether thin or curvy, from the edge of his bed). So maybe curvy women just try a lot harder in bed and are rated better afterwards than a slim woman who is more aware of her beauty and power and therefore doesn’t try to please her partner as much. Men generally don’t think much during sex. We should take them as an example and just let ourselves fall into the moment. I think this is a sensitive topic and we women are all a bit sensitive in this respect, until finally someone comes who gives us the feeling of being the most beautiful woman on earth naked and uncovered. Then the situation relaxes and you can have the best sex in the world with each other, regardless of your size.
The answer is: Yes, curvy women simply try harder to please their partner and thus score better. Besides plump women are known to enjoy things in life more, with body and soul, which also earns bonus points in bed.
Otherwise it depends of course individually on the person. Some are very sexual, wild and keen to experiment, others prefer loving and gentle sex. But honestly, girls: You can only be as good as your partner! If nothing comes back, no matter how hard you try to be the best, it just won’t work.
So it’s best to forget all the negative thoughts about who is how good in bed, whether you have too small or too big breasts or your belly is too big and simply enjoy the moment with your beloved. If you do that, and if you completely get into it, you will soon become even better in bed, because all your energy, attention and passion is focused on your lust. And who is better in bed than a woman who really loves?
Stella Sieger is 27 years old, trained actress and Curvy Model from Munich. She loves fashion and likes to play with her femininity. “Whether thin, normal or curvy, we can all dress fashionably and chicly!
How do you see it? Are curvy women really better in bed? Do you share Stella’s experience?