Let’s talk about hot girl shit and why it’s important. Being hot doesn’t necessarily have to relate to physical appearance, and it definitely doesn’t need to be exclusive to looks or aesthetic purposes only.
2020 was a year filled with many twists and turns, and it affected every single one of us whether we liked it or not. Although we are now in a new year, things may not feel or look so different than before.
However, I find that having a healthy mindset is key. Which is why I want to talk about confidence and * hot girl shit. *
Being Hot is a State of Mind
This is a statement that I heard from a food and wellness account that I have been following on Instagram. Sophia recently released an e-book called ‘Paradigm Shift‘ which consists of journaling prompts relating to topics on self-love, creativity, dreams, manifestation, positive affirmations, goal setting, productivity, and much more.
Feeling Hot & Confident
So, what does it mean to be hot?
Well, it can mean something different to everyone, but I truly love how the statement connects hotness to a state of mind. You’re not always going to feel your best, but who does?
Self-love is a constant battle and you’re not always going to win. But the good news is that you are in control of your thoughts, and you have the power to shift your mindset.
Confidence and attractiveness go hand in hand with attitude. When you’re feeling positive and strong mentally, it’s going to affect how you view yourself and how you speak to yourself. It’s important to take note of the things that make you feel good and bad so that you become aware of positive and negative triggers.
If you notice that you feel hot when you’re wearing a certain outfit or color, wear it more often! If you feel hot when you’re dancing alone in your bedroom, then keep on dancing and spreading that contagious energy! There is no right or wrong answer. It’s all about you and what makes you feel good.
Sometimes it’s difficult to think about yourself and what you genuinely like, do, or think about. I believe that finding things that bring genuine joy into your life is one of our life missions. You should make yourself a priority. It’s easy to get lost among the opinions, ideas, and thoughts that everyone else has, but don’t let other people cloud your reality.
Hot girl shit is all about embracing your authenticity and flaws and loving yourself unconditionally. It’s a movement and state of mind that lifts women up. It’s not so much about how you look on the outside, but more so on the inside.
When you feel good internally, it will shine through externally. So, do more of the things that make you feel good. Read a book, put some lip gloss on, learn a new language, dance alone, put on a cute outfit, eat delicious food, bake sweet treats…whatever it is — just do it!
You know yourself better than anyone else does.